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The 7 Best Ways To Last Longer In Bed

8 Sep

Having some trouble lasting in bed? Well the truth is, that with the right advice and just a little dedication, all men can learn how to last longer in bed. Today’s post will show you seven great ways to help you achieve this

1. Tune in… but tune into everything

During sex you may have tried to distract yourself by thinking about baseball or reciting your 27 times tables. Yet what you really should be doing is the exact opposite. Yep… tuning in, not out. You may or may not have heard this advice in the past, but the real reason why tuning in can work so well to help you last longer is very rarely explained properly. Here’s the trick, what is really meant by “tuning in” is “tune into everything”, not just those sensations occurring down south. You should make sure to tune into every single sensation you are sensing. Tune into every place your partner is touching you and the feeling of her skin, tune into every sound she is making, tune into the feel of her body. I mean absolutely everything men. You may be surprised to see how this will actually have the effect of stopping you from solely focusing on the sensation in your genital region and with a little practice will go a long way towards helping you learn how to last longer in bed. You also get the added benefit of being able to focus on the beautiful woman you are with rather than some sweaty baseball slugger!

2. Get your breathing right men!

Gotta get you breathing right men! This is really important. It’s natural to breathe deeply during sex, but guess what? This is something that a large majority of men who have trouble lasting fail to do. They will start taking short, fast and shallow breaths the moment sex begins, or for some, as soon as they even think about intercourse with their girl. By learning to breathe in a more relaxed and controlled way both prior to and during intercourse you will be able to make a significant improvement to your lasting time.

3. Make sure to pace yourself

For the majority of men who have a hard time lasting in bed, the real danger time is during those first one or two minutes. If you can make it through this time, the probability of being able to last longer will actually increase. That’s exactly why it’s so important to go slow and take it easy at the beginning. Here’s what to do… extend foreplay, then make sure that you are in a relaxed and comfortable state prior to intercourse, then once you begin, take it easy at first to give yourself a fighting chance to get used to the sensation and make in past the danger time.

4. Get An Expert’s Advice

It’s a fact is that with the correct treatment, premature can be cured in the overwhelming majority of cases. So why not seek the advice of an expert. Talk to a doctor, or better yet, see a trained sexual health expert. Ok… I know what you’re thinking, it may seem embarrassing to talk to someone about this highly personal problem. but the truth is that they really can help. Let me put it this way. What’s worse, a little embarrassment, experienced when seeing an expert, or a lifetime of premature ejaculation and not being able to last longer enough lasting to satisfy not only your partner but yourself as well?

Having said that, I understand that some men will not be willing to see an expert face to face no matter how many reasons they are given. If this is the case then why not go for the next best thing and get your hands on a guide written by expert. James Robinson, a sexual health counselor practicing out of Chicago has written this popular guide to help men last longer in bed. It contains all the areas covered in this blog and of course a lot more. It’s also a lot cheaper than the price of consultations.

5. The Secret Of Pelvic Muscle Control

You will find that many men who struggle to last in bed, will be either consciously or unconsciously tensing their pelvic and ejaculatory muscles during sex. To truly learn how to last longer in bed this is something that you will have to put an end to. This leads us to one of the true secrets of being able to lasting longer in bed. A secret that, in all honesty many experts regularly fail comprehend. It’s an undeniable fact that it is physically impossible for a man to ejaculate while his ejaculatory and pelvic muscles are in a relaxed and controlled state. So the real key is to become aware of the state that these muscles are in, and start learning some techniques and exercise methods that will give you the ability to control the physical state of these muscles.

6. Consider Natural Supplements

Why not try a natural supplement to help you last longer in bed. To tell you the truth, they do not work for all men, while other men find that taking a supplement is a great way to help them prolong ejaculation. If you do chose to take a supplement to help you last longer, you should know that they can be expensive, so it may be a good idea to buy a small quantity first, and decide if they are right for you.

The best supplements work by increasing the man’s Serotonin levels which has been proven to increase the lasting time for some men. The better products that are available will offer a full refund on unused portions if you should decide that they are not right for you. Probably the most popular premature ejaculation supplement available is climinax, which has a number of active ingredients shown to help some men last longer in bed.

7. Don’t pressure on yourself.

I have left this till last as it is really important for you to remember. Don’t put unnecessary pressure on yourself during sex. The worst thing a man can do during intercourse is to start going over in his mind, what will happen if he fails to last in bed and ejaculates early. Just relax, put the other tips I have showed you into action and most importantly, enjoy the moment. If you do happen to ejaculate before you would like, just remember, it’s not the end of the world. There are so many ways to help you last longer, and be 100% sure that with and the right information and a small amount of dedication and practice, you will be lasting longer in bed in no time at all.